Make no mistake folks, this race problem we have is because people can’t seem to understand ,that hate is a learned emotion. You are not born with it, it is something that you have to learn to do. Just like anything else you learn you can also unlearn it. How do you unlearn an emotion? By using logic, looking for the facts, understanding that it is an emotion and you have been conditioned to responded a certain way when faced with a person who is different then you.
The only person you can change is you. How do you change? Its not always easy but you start small. You will have a hard time changing a learned behavior over night. However you can start by just listening to those who you have been taught to hate. In most cases you will find out that the individual person is nothing like you have been lead to believe. In fact you might find out that person has the same hopes, dreams, and fears as you do. We all want the same basic things. If you look at each person as an individual your hate will fade away.
There will still be people who don’t deserve your kindness, friendship or respect, but that will be because of something they have done as an individual instead of because of the color of their skin, their religious beliefs or whatever you have been conditioned to hate.
Some people will always hold onto that hate because it’s the only thing they think they have. 