Short and sweet, since God is love , how can we mortals judge how two consenting adults feel about each other?
I love my Church, my Church is run by humans , humans have been known to make mistakes.
With that said, if people want to make this a non-issue then simply change the name of the marriage license to a civil union license and allow people to go to their Church and see if they can get married there. ( Civil union lic for ALL Couples straight or gay.)
Blows my mind when I think of the money that has been spent by both sides , and how it could have been used to help lift up a lot of people who need help.